LIAM’S BUTTERFLY

Forward by Cheryl:

This third letter was written by John, an adult survivor of sexual abuse. I thank him for sharing his thoughts regarding Liam, his inner child. We need to let ourselves see the child within; we need to nurture and love, and most importantly, forgive.

Your Letter

Cheryl,

I’d like to thank you for writing me, yet again. Since corresponding with you, I’ve opened the doors to my past. I’ve been with my inner child who I call Liam. Liam is a valuable part of me. You nudged me towards writing about him. Not easy – emotionally exhausting, but necessary in order to fly to freedom. Please be with me in your beautiful mind and heart as I continue this journey of healing. I had no idea one person could carry so much pain. It’s coming out Cheryl, it’s coming out. I am ever so grateful to you.

I can’t stop crying. Healing tears – there’s so much to be healed.

Respectfully, John

My Response Letter

Dear John,

Writing to survivors has been an uplifting experience for me. I’ve made long-lasting friendships and have learned a wealth of information along the way. I’ll always keep writing, especially to kind-hearted people like you. I accept your thanks regarding my letters. Just knowing I’ve helped you is more than enough for me.

I’m so pleased you have been with your inner child. Liam is valuable and should be acknowledged. He needs to know he’s protected and loved, always. He’s a part of you after all, he always will be. The only way you can find peace in your heart, is to let him come forward so you can both heal.

Your child is precious. Treat your inner child with love and respect. Nurture him unconditionally. Understand his weaknesses and seek comfort in his strengths. Liam survived the horror of sexual abuse, and that in itself, is most courageous. Your child has more courage then you truly realize. Be proud of how far he’s come. Hold him close to your heart; let yourself see who he really is. He’s a child, a true survivor who is a part of you. He’s been with you all along. He is the very essence of your being, truly the inner part of your soul.

Comfort Liam, love him, and show forgiveness by accepting him into your heart. Let him prevail without guilt once in awhile. Be patient, he’s endured so much already. His lost innocence, his trust, all taken in a heart beat, never to be returned. Remember, you are one with your inner child. He is a valuable part of your life’s journey. Together, you will cry healing tears. Together, you will have the freedom to fly towards heights you’ve never imagined.

Liam, be like a butterfly, spread your wings for the first time, and experience the true beauty of an endless sky. Freedom.

John, always write what comes from your heart. Use the written word to portray what’s truly within. You will find comfort through writing, experiencing a release you’ve never known. Emotions will run high, tears will be shed, but that’s okay. Ride out your pain; draw on your inner-strength as a survivor. You can do this, I know you can. And, you don’t have to do it alone. You already have my heart. I am here and will continue to be throughout your journey to heal; for both of you.

God, please watch over Liam. Bring him comfort, solace and inner-peace.

Best wishes always,

Cheryl