I've put from 5 to 12 as i remember some landmark dates and locations around then. struggling for exact detail, i could only remember 1 or 2 incidents at first description recently but then a few more crept into mind. Pretty disturbed to picture what else might be suppressed & horrified to think ...

No is my primary answer. I've kinda forgiven the 2ndary abuser because he was under the control of the primary one and has made an effort and seemingly shown remorse since. Without directly bringing the matter up.

With the primary one I've had to survive with them in the periphery of my life, i've ...