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by Harry
Sat Jul 05, 2025 7:07 pm
Forum: Announcements
Topic: Blog Update - Motivating Survivors of Child Abuse to Embrace Second Chances
Replies: 2
Views: 12169

Re: Blog Update - Motivating Survivors of Child Abuse to Embrace Second Chances

”Polyvagal theory” is pseudoscience.

The approach may sometimes have some clinical usefulness, but is based on false assumptions and ideas.

Here are some quotes from Wikipedia about it Wiki link

" There is consensus among experts that the assumptions of the polyvagal theory are untenable. PVT is ...
by Harry
Tue May 27, 2025 5:54 am
Forum: Announcements
Topic: Blog Update - Empowering Survivors: A Vital Research Paper on Sleep-Facilitated Sexual Assault
Replies: 7
Views: 100235

Re: Blog Update - Empowering Survivors: A Vital Research Paper on Sleep-Facilitated Sexual Assault


Thanks for this Jamie.

The link in the blog to the research is broken.

Was it this paper?

https://journals.sas.ac.uk/amicus/article/download/5500/5256


Hi Northern,
I doubt the link you have shared is what Jamie alluded to.
The link in your post is not to an article, and is not to research ...
by Harry
Tue May 27, 2025 5:39 am
Forum: Announcements
Topic: Blog Update - Empowering Survivors: A Vital Research Paper on Sleep-Facilitated Sexual Assault
Replies: 7
Views: 100235

Re: Blog Update - Empowering Survivors: A Vital Research Paper on Sleep-Facilitated Sexual Assault

Hi Jamie,

I too would like to see the research. The above link leads to a broken link as mentioned by Northern.

H
by Harry
Sat May 10, 2025 12:16 pm
Forum: Notice Board
Topic: Recent 503 Error
Replies: 21
Views: 41204

Re: Recent 503 Error

Seems to be a widespread and ongoing...

For me, it is worst when I try to use a chat room.

H
by Harry
Sat May 03, 2025 6:04 pm
Forum: Notice Board
Topic: Recent 503 Error
Replies: 21
Views: 41204

Re: Recent 503 Error

Harry wrote: Sat May 03, 2025 3:20 am I often get 50 errors.

I continue to frequently need to sign out and sign back in to havochat

I figure it is just how things are!

H
The above was a typo! Not "50".... I get the same 503 errors as others!

I figure the server is busy.
I figure Jamie is busy.

H
by Harry
Sat May 03, 2025 3:20 am
Forum: Notice Board
Topic: Recent 503 Error
Replies: 21
Views: 41204

Re: Recent 503 Error

I often get 50 errors.

I continue to frequently need to sign out and sign back in to havochat

I figure it is just how things are!

H
by Harry
Thu Mar 13, 2025 3:02 am
Forum: Notice Board
Topic: Recent 503 Error
Replies: 21
Views: 41204

Re: Recent 503 Error

Thanks Jamie!

H
by Harry
Tue Dec 24, 2024 6:34 pm
Forum: Announcements
Topic: *** Merry Christmas and Happy New Year ***
Replies: 5
Views: 15639

Re: *** Merry Christmas and Happy New Year ***

Wishing good things to those who celebrate Christmas!
And a happy new year to all!

H
by Harry
Tue Jun 04, 2024 9:28 pm
Forum: Notice Board
Topic: Advance Notice - Planned Maintenance - Weekend 8th - 9th June 2024
Replies: 1
Views: 14293

Re: Advance Notice - Planned Maintenance - Weekend 8th - 9th June 2024

Thanks for the heads up!
Thank for doing the maintenance - I realize that maintaining this site is a lot of work...

H
by Harry
Wed Apr 05, 2023 11:40 pm
Forum: Notice Board
Topic: HAVOCA - Negative Feedback
Replies: 51
Views: 852110

Re: HAVOCA - Negative Feedback





It takes the stronger person not to rise to provocation, not to judge what is perceived as provocation. When we see something that irks us, we must be better than to judge it, even if it seems to beg judgement.

"What could that person have experienced that would lead them to think in that ...
by Harry
Tue Apr 04, 2023 11:02 pm
Forum: Notice Board
Topic: HAVOCA - Negative Feedback
Replies: 51
Views: 852110

Re: HAVOCA - Negative Feedback


Hi Harry, I think are talking about different things here .. well I sincerely hope so.
I was referring to a post ( which was removed after attention brought to it) clearly stated in the rules not allowed ,which caused a lot of distress to people here who were sexually abused as children, but also ...
by Harry
Tue Apr 04, 2023 10:04 pm
Forum: Notice Board
Topic: HAVOCA - Negative Feedback
Replies: 51
Views: 852110

Re: HAVOCA - Negative Feedback



It takes the stronger person not to rise to provocation, not to judge what is perceived as provocation. When we see something that irks us, we must be better than to judge it, even if it seems to beg judgement.

"What could that person have experienced that would lead them to think in that way ...
by Harry
Sat Jan 28, 2023 8:43 pm
Forum: Notice Board
Topic: Member of the Year 2022
Replies: 34
Views: 70558

Re: Member of the Year 2022

john100 wrote: Sat Jan 28, 2023 7:55 pm
DIVINE wrote: Sat Jan 28, 2023 5:07 pm Yes Sid must be member of the year ❤❤❤
The Sid comments are good, but there is a clear attack on another member here...
Quite right John!
Comments about Sid for member of the year are good, no one should be attacked, and I think Actnormal is great!

H
by Harry
Wed Jan 25, 2023 3:33 am
Forum: Notice Board
Topic: Member of the Year 2022
Replies: 34
Views: 70558

Re: Member of the Year 2022

actnormal wrote: Wed Jan 25, 2023 2:24 am ..... A nomination is a vote is a nomination.
Smiling...
Nomination is different from voting on the American side of the pond.

Thanks for clearing it up!
H
by Harry
Wed Jan 25, 2023 1:51 am
Forum: Notice Board
Topic: Member of the Year 2022
Replies: 34
Views: 70558

Re: Member of the Year 2022

Thanks AN,
I sent Jamie a message with my nomination, and also a message with my vote.
Is there a listing of who has been nominated so that voters may choose among the nominated candidates?
H

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