I'm sorry to hear their reaction Chris. What will it take for people to take notice and do something to help abuse victims? Thank God for Havoca and Napac etc but there is a desperate need for more help. Especially now with all the news regarding child abuse you'd think that there would be more done ...

I think possibly I would but initially I would be terrified. I would want somebody present who was either a trained counsellor or trained to lead a group and who had experience of being abused.

I cannot manufacture feelings that aren't there. Because of my religious beliefs I have felt that I should forgive but its impossible. There's too much anger and pain. My brother has never acknowledged what he did let alone said he was sorry. It wouldn't make any difference though as I would still ...