Thanks Jamie.

Apologies for doing that in my post. Hassle unintended.

Nina.

This thread is making me really nervous and I'm feeling vulnerable.
I felt like this was a place I could be myself in safety and understanding.
I'm feeling very differently to that now and really starting to regret sharing and feeling I was able to share. In fact...
I'm scared witless.

By being prepared to put your pin in with your username shows members you are genuine and not just some 'pretender'. To some members the idea of an unnamed pin close to them might be suspicious.

I've no wish to cause problems but I personally take serious issue with this.

Personally "I" will ...

I'd be far more likely to think about Jules' idea than having a pin with a name on it.
Top job Jules. Cracking idea!

I thought about taking this up but then I realised it's too "real" for me at the moment. I don't want to be easily found either by estranged family or others at the moment, especially with an ongoing legal process surrounding the very reason I'm here. Just thought I'd throw in my two penneth as to ...