Yes, really lovely to see this, Pondbug and SunshineSmile!

And lovely to see Northern and free butterfly appreciated as well!

Ah - SunshineSmile!
I'm so happy to see your name - you are so warm, insightful and your posts are full of care.
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I agree it's sometimes important to say something when we see things we think are thoughtless, disrespectful or unkind - But sometimes it's also important to remember we don't have to engage. If something makes you anxious, it's fine to just ignore or not read. Sometimes there may be something that ...

hello,
I've been reading and wondering about this thread. Kadie, thank you for being explicit about the kinds of posts you're referring to (victim blaming and some kind of sexual gratification).

I've sometimes been concerned about posts - sometimes it's just something in the tone that feels to me ...

Thanks L-J!

Hello,
I've been thinking a bit, and no amazing ideas, but a couple of thoughts.
If you could produce a short description of Havoca, with maybe something about the financial situation, what we need now, and different ways of donating, some of us might have contacts we could send it to (I do); and or ...

I can't remember (I know I found the home page once and was put off by the references to 'survivor to thriver' and didn't get through to the forums) but I have a feeling it might have been the police historic abuse team. I reported to my local police station and then got a call from the historic ...

Hope you have a fabulous break Jamie!
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Hi,
It's not exactly the same thing, but Douglas Fairburn and Andre Green (both psychoanalysts) talk about something similar in situations where the parent withdraws psychically, and emotionally, from their child for whatever reason - There's a really helpful summary of some of Fairburn's ideas in ...

Ah - fabulous to see you all back.
Thanks for getting us back up Jamie!

Yes. I saw this thread when I first joined, and it didn't make sense to me... Now it does.
love
clods
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