What I really love about HAVOCA is.....

[Smithy]

hi yourfriend
we havent met yet, but glad tos ee you here,best wishes from me x

[Hovisg]

Thought it might be a good time to re-light this thread

What I really love about Havoca is ........

........I feel safe to say, write and be heard

Hugs all Hovis xx

[Urban Rose]

I love the fact that havoca is always here. I can take a week off, because I am just too busy with life, come back, and here you all are. People take a break for months, but always get a welcome.

There are lovely, compassionate, gentle and wise people gathered here. People listen and they care.

It's not all about how much we suffered, I like chit chat and the lighter side of life too.

In all I like havoca because it's a community.

Rose

[Sammie]

It helps to ease the huge loneliness I feel.
That I have this secret that I can't tell anyone,
only my c and Havoca know.
I can be myself here and cry along with you all.
It's so special to read other posts and know that I could have written it,
that others feel the same as me,
helps me to feel a little more normal.
The support and compassion shown by others is what makes this an amazing place.
Thanks everyone.

[Eva]

I can be me . No need to pretend or put a face on. Nobody judges me here.

[louise12321]

That you showed me that I am not alone, my feelings are normal, I am not strange or a psycho

I have been reading the pages for months, plucked up the courage to register on the forum a few months back and now feeling able to talk, all because your site allowed me to be ME and gave me the best advice I have ever had. I am not alone and do not deserve how I feel. !!!IT WAS NOT MY FAULT!!!

A huge heartfelt THANK YOU HAVOCA XXXXXX

Louise

[Rosie-the-Riveter]

The people!

[mags]

Feeling safe, feeling wanted. Being able to sit quietly and feel relaxed, feeling like I'm part of a loving, caring family who accept me just as I am.

[mags]

I love Havoca because I can come here and recharge my batteries and find the strength to stay on course. This community makes me feel strong and capable, worthy, wanted, supported and able to carry on being ME despite others me trying to throw me off balance.

[Urban Rose]

I can come here whenever I need. Just to sit. Or to contribute. I can come 10 times in a day or not for a month... and havoca will be here

[tracker]

The friends who accepted me.
The friends who corrected me.
The friends who understand me.
The friends who stuck with me.
The friends who I try and support.

Stay safe

tracker

[Eva]

i feel listened too here. it's my safety net.
i feel less alone when i come here.

[tetti2]

No more secrets
you care
you understand
you never judge

Thank you

[anna 1]

I don't feel so alone anymore ,I feel like I fit in x

[mags]

This is the one place in the whole world where I feel safe, cared for and never threatened. The place where nobody swears, shouts at me or threatens me. The one place where nobody tells me I don't deserve love.
I'm sure my life would've been so much better if I'd found Havoca years ago.

Thank you so much for being here.

Mags.