Member of the Year 2021 - Winner

[SusieNG]

I’ve only just seen this. So well deserved ((((Bunting)))).
You always post such thoughtful and helpful replies.
Very pleased for you and it has made me smile today.

Well done

Susie xxx

[Beinfois]

Massive well done bunting x

[KathrynT]

Well deserved

[RyteWrite]

Congratulations Bunting!

You deserve it.

[Mishmash]

Congratulations ((((( BUNTING )))))

That's such a well-deserved accolade!

Mishmash xx

[SunshineSmile]

Well done Bunting!! Very much deserved!!

(((((((( Bunting ))))))))

[Larvin]

Aww so happy to see this! Congratulations Bunting, so well deserved x

[Spw44]

Just seen this very well deserved xx

[Fighting4me]

Congratulations (((Bunting))), amazing! You are a fabulous support and whilst I haven’t been on the forum that regularly, I know this is well deserved!

[Littlelost1]

Thank you for your service to others! Very helpful.

[Tony the mad poet]

I have just seen this Bunting! I knew you were a special friend to me and a truly wonderful person! I have seen your support of other members of Havoca and of myself and you are truly deserving. You are a wonderful person Bunting, you are a truly caring, compassionate, decent human being. You are a credit to havoca and to all the people who you have befrended and supported. ((((Bunting))))

Bunting

Bunting, much love to you
For care and support,
For all that you do

You make the world a better place
Your healing words, your love and grace
Belong here in this healing place

I am proud, proud to know you
Proud to be your friend
Your words and caring lift me up
I hope our friendship never ends.

Tony Demoncy 3:59 27/04/2022

[Bunting]

Thank you (((Tony))) such kind words
I'm very uncomfortable with praise and any spotlight, it's quite triggering. It's lovely to get the recognition but in equal measures very unnerving for me. I imagine lots of survivors get that too.
...and thank you.
B xx

[Tony the mad poet]

I get performance anxiety but I have found that in certain settings I can overcome it. I certainly would never want to be famous! I always dealt very badly with praise, I am starting to accept it from various peer groups but I rarely believe it. I can bring myself to intellectually accept praise but emotionally is rarer. I can sometimes manage it though. I can sometimes feel that praise is worthy. Again it is very circumstance dependent.

Anyway Hugs.

[Bunting]

Yes that is similar for me, intellectual acceptance, but emotional anxiety. Good way of describing it.
Hugs always appreciated. X

[Roseanna999]

just seen this

congrats and thanks bunting

well deserved

xx