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  • Announcements
    This is where staff will post news about events that are taking place.
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  • Notice Board
    Section for general notices concerning this forum.
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    Thu Sep 02, 2010 1:20 pm
  • Issues/Suggestions/Feedback
    Any problems or questions concerning this place should be posted here.
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    Last post by Jamie View the latest post
    Wed Sep 01, 2010 9:11 am
  • Test
    This is an area you can use to test your avtar, practise posting etc.
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    Last post by carrie View the latest post
    Wed Sep 01, 2010 5:11 pm
  • General Chit Chat
    This is some where to relax, kick off your shoes and have a glass of wine. Please use the other sections to discuss abuse related issues. This forum is strictly for off-topic discussions.
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    Last post by Lynx View the latest post
    Thu Sep 02, 2010 11:56 pm
  • Humour
    A place to take a break and have some fun
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    Thu Sep 02, 2010 11:45 pm
  • Chat
    Use this section to post meeting times for the Chat room. Please put the date and time in the message title. Chat can be found in the links at the top of this page.
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    Last post by dizzy412 View the latest post
    Wed Sep 01, 2010 9:41 am
  • HAVOCA Website
    Full of information, advice and useful links. The website contains thousands: of pages boasting one of the largest online resources for survivors of abuse. The website also includes a bookstore and a giftshop - proceeds go towards the upkeep of these pages.
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  • Introductions
    A place to introduce yourself and meet other members of the forum
    Moderator: dizzy412
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    Last post by Jamie View the latest post
    Thu Sep 02, 2010 1:00 pm
  • General Abuse Related Topics
    A place to talk about general abuse related issues and items.
    Subforum: Other non-abuse related issues
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    Last post by discodevilx View the latest post
    Thu Sep 02, 2010 11:14 pm
  • Emotional Abuse
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    Last post by miffybun View the latest post
    Wed Sep 01, 2010 11:27 pm
  • Psychological Abuse
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    Last post by gloriousgirl View the latest post
    Thu Aug 19, 2010 7:46 pm
  • Physical Abuse
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    Last post by hope View the latest post
    Tue Aug 31, 2010 8:09 pm
  • Sexual Abuse
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    Last post by charlies angel View the latest post
    Fri Sep 03, 2010 1:11 am
  • Relationships
    This is the place to discuss issues arising with partners, including bonding, forming relationships, breaking up, love, intimacy, marriage and life together in general.
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    Thu Sep 02, 2010 11:16 pm
  • Healing Journey/Therapy
    A place to discuss your journey, offer each other support, provide ideas and methods that work, therapy, counselling and ask questions to other survivors about the path they are on.
    Subforum: Social Situations
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    Last post by discodevilx View the latest post
    Thu Sep 02, 2010 11:39 pm
  • Inner Child
    A place to come to talk about your Inner Child.
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    Last post by gloriousgirl View the latest post
    Thu Aug 19, 2010 7:32 pm
  • Celebrating Achievements
    All too often we concentrate on the negative feelings we experience during recovery. This section is a place to list all of our achievements, either real, aspired to or aimed for.
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    Last post by Pixie View the latest post
    Tue Aug 31, 2010 10:00 pm
  • Memories
    A place to talk about the good things that have happened in your life. Use this place to remind yourself of the good times and at the same time provide hope and inspiration to others.
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    Last post by Phillykins View the latest post
    Sun Jun 27, 2010 7:18 am
  • My Story
    Some members find it helpful sharing their experiences. This section allows you to read other people's stories or post your own.
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    Last post by miffybun View the latest post
    Tue Aug 24, 2010 4:11 pm
  • Unsent letters/unspoken words
    Post these here to give yourself closure on matters that have been left unsaid or bottled up inside for too long.
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    Last post by fighting spirit View the latest post
    Mon Aug 09, 2010 12:34 am
  • Lyrics/Poems/Quotes
    A chance to share all your favourite and inspirational ones.
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    Last post by charlies angel View the latest post
    Wed Aug 25, 2010 11:45 pm
  • Rant and Rave
    This is a place where you can broadcast a one way transmission to the world about any issues, fears, hates or problems you have. Rants and raves about other members/posts from this forum are not permitted, in this case, please reply to the topic in question or PM the person concerned. You can read other poeple's rants but you won't be allowed to reply. This allows members to throw a wobbly without fear of retribution, judgement or sympathy.
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    Last post by Lois0202 View the latest post
    Thu Sep 02, 2010 11:27 pm
  • News
    Your chance to debate news items. Current affairs topics will be posted here by the moderators and members will be invited to reply. If you want a news article added here, then please contact Claudine.
    32 Topics
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    Last post by skip View the latest post
    Sat Jul 17, 2010 5:55 am
  • Articles
    A useful collection of articles and readings all relating to the healing journey and survival of childhood abuse.
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    Last post by rastalady View the latest post
    Sat Aug 21, 2010 6:11 pm
  • Moving on......
    This section is for members who are considering leaving the forum/community. It's somewhere to share fears, hopes and aspirations for the future.
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    Last post by Nicola View the latest post
    Wed Jun 02, 2010 8:21 am
  • ***NEW***Reviews***NEW***
    Read reviews about books, websites, types of therapy, etc. If you would like to review something yourself or request a specific review please contact info@havoca.org.
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    Last post by charlies angel View the latest post
    Fri Sep 03, 2010 12:53 am
  • Members' Portrait Gallery
    A gallery to publish pictures of yourself. If you are browsing this forum and haven't posted your own picture yet please respect the bravery of those that have posted. Breaking the silence and the secrecy is one way to break the cycle of abuse.
    Subforum: Photographic Memories
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    Last post by Lynx View the latest post
    Sun Aug 29, 2010 10:22 pm
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  • Family and Friends
    A place for the loved ones of survivors to come and support each other
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    Last post by Pixie View the latest post
    Mon Aug 23, 2010 12:23 am
  • Debate
    A weekly topic will be posted in this section to generate discussion and ask those searching questions many of us are scared to ask.
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    Last post by Lynx View the latest post
    Sun Aug 29, 2010 10:12 pm
  • Workshop Information
    Course requirements and application details
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    Last post by claudine View the latest post
    Wed Aug 04, 2010 6:07 pm
  • HAVOCA Safety Workshop
    This one week course is designed to establish your personal safety levels, general awareness state and develop a support system.
    Length of course: 1 Wk
    NEXT START DATE: 3 May 2010
    Subforum: Safety Workshop Chat
    14 Topics
    94 Posts
    Last post by aprilrenee View the latest post
    Fri May 14, 2010 5:00 pm
  • HAVOCA Survivors Workshop
    This workshop will firstly allow you to explore your past, formally acknowledge the abuse and provide the backbone for your journey. The second stage will increase your awareness of your identity and give you the ability to mourn the things you lost as a child. The third stage, and arguably the most important phase, will set you up to start the healing process. The workshop will look at coping methods, strategies and self help principles to put you firmly on the road to a becoming a thriver.
    lenght of course: 3 months
    NEXT START DATE: TBC
    Subforum: Survivors Workshop Chat
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    Last post by Jamie View the latest post
    Tue Nov 17, 2009 1:39 pm

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