I said maybe
If I had said yes and you said ok go tomorrow I wouldn't be happy I said yes
But if I said maybe it means I might go if I have time to progress a little more
Or reflect on whether the benefits would outweigh any negatives
For me the negatives are I still want to minimise my situation so still can't help comparing
And I know you can't compare I have said so myself before but if I matched a face to a situation
I think it would make my minimising worse.
Does that make any sense at all? It does in my head to me