Understanding Flashbacks: A Guide for Survivors of Child Abuse

Understanding Flashbacks: A Guide for Survivors of Child Abuse Flashbacks are vivid, involuntary recollections of past traumatic events that can feel as real as the original experience. For survivors of child abuse, these flashbacks can manifest as intrusive memories, intense emotions, or physical sensations. They often occur in response to … Continue reading

Understanding the Drama Triangle: A Tool for Survivors of Abuse

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Understanding the Drama Triangle: A Tool for Survivors of Abuse The Drama Triangle, introduced by Stephen Karpman and explained in detail in the Survivors section of our website, is a powerful tool for understanding the dynamics of victimhood and how we unconsciously play roles of victim, rescuer, and persecutor in … Continue reading

Understanding Survivor Behaviours: Navigating the Aftermath of Abuse

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Understanding Survivor Behaviours: Navigating the Aftermath of Abuse Survivors of abuse often experience a myriad of emotions and behaviours as they navigate the complex journey toward healing. These responses can be deeply rooted in their traumatic experiences, influencing their actions, relationships, and overall well-being. Understanding these behaviors is crucial for … Continue reading

Navigating Mental Health as an Adult Survivor of Childhood Abuse

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Navigating Mental Health as an Adult Survivor of Childhood Abuse Surviving childhood abuse is a profound journey that often leaves lasting emotional and psychological scars. The impact on mental health can be significant, but understanding and addressing these effects is a crucial step towards healing and reclaiming your life. This … Continue reading

Understanding Guilt and Shame in Survivors of Child Abuse

Shame and Guilt

Understanding Guilt and Shame in Survivors of Child Abuse Child abuse leaves deep scars, not just physically but emotionally and psychologically. Among the most pervasive and challenging emotions that survivors grapple with are guilt and shame. These feelings can be overwhelming and often hinder the healing process. But why are … Continue reading

Embracing the Journey of Healing from Past Trauma

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Embracing the Journey of Healing from Past Trauma Healing from past trauma is a journey of resilience and growth. While it can be challenging, it also offers opportunities for profound personal transformation. By understanding and embracing these challenges, you can navigate the path to recovery with hope and strength. 1. Emotional … Continue reading

Navigating the Challenges of Healing from Past Trauma

Navigating the Challenges of Healing from Past Trauma Healing from past trauma is a deeply personal and often complex journey. While the path to recovery is unique for everyone, there are common challenges that many people face. Understanding these obstacles can help in navigating the healing process more effectively. 1. Emotional … Continue reading

The scapegoat culture in child sexual abuse: meet Calimero

In child sexual abuse, Men perpetrators abuse the calimero position thanks to false abuse accusations against men. Women perpetrators abuse the calimero position thanks to falsely dismissed women victims.

The scapegoat culture in child sexual abuse: meet Calimero The recent avalanche of child sexual abuse revelations in the press, and the documentary Godvergeten, about how the church and the state still don’t deal with child sexual abuse, remain vivid topics of disgust. It appears the recent revelations of child … Continue reading

Switzerland is the Auschwitz of Child Sexual Abuse

Switzerland is the Auschwitz of Child Sexual Abuse

What happened yesterday thwarts all imagination. A report on Child Sexual Abuse came out in Switzerland. Both the authorities and the church reacted. I need to write, I need to vent. Discover with me the true nature of Switzerland … The report The report released September 12th 2023 is titled … Continue reading

Learning from History?

The white march in Brussels, 1996, demanding non recurrence by authorities in child sexual abuse case handling mistakes

Learning from History? Nations and governments have never learned anything from history, or acted upon any lessons they might have drawn from it What experience and history teach is this – that nations and governments have never learned anything from history, or acted upon any lessons they might have drawn … Continue reading