some victims feel worthless, not worth anything, it tales a while to know someone may listen, to trust , victims need time.

so i'm wallowing too now? :shock: (joke) self doubt, worry, vulnerable , to blame, my fault have been familiar companions for so very long, it's always my fault, not good enough....... i read A M's reply , it is reassuring. just goes to show how vulnerable we all are , i thought i'd come along way b...

so i forgive everyone, especially the trespassers .... love to you all.

i hope i do better and if i don't hope what else is there.

wow, read though all of this and i now feel quite vulnerable,

i know it ain't all about me .......... is it?

hey Lisa-Lisa

that was a useful piece of writing, when does the year start, when has the money got to hit the target?

when does the new collection year start?

who gave 19p? and does it sit in an interest account

i'm not on twitter or anything else like it, i'll think about joining it , but just reading that Stephen bumped it up and followed makes me get the jitters. i've no idea what that is or how to go about it. It all seems a bit daunting. however i got the hang of sending emails i dare say i got grasp t...

any news on the paypal thing? i can try to get some info if you like.

i think if you can get them to add you to their next vote it would be good.

was that clear, the charity submit an application to be included in the scheme, the charity tell it's members to go vote for them, we vote, if havoca win, we then donate and paypal match the donations. It's 'n' on going thing i think, one of the other charities i know about asked me to go vote etc, ...

paypal are running sponsorship for small charities , the charity ask , the charity tell us, we all vote , the winner get told by paypal if they get enough votes , then paypal matches our funds we raise.

Antarctica looks like a good place to bring up kids!!!

it's one of the more stupid ideas i am putting forward but here goes..... more than stupid , when i go on my daily walks i often find money on the floor, 1 p's 2 ps etc, i'd been picking it up and putting it on a shelf when i come in, in one year it has amounted to £5.47p , i also found a £10 note o...

i just read this.

i was browsing and it caught my eye.

that's acceptable Act, why don't we all put in ideas and have someone take what's good. my idea. Welcome newest member, there is guidance and information to guide you and help in the way that you may need, you're in control of you here, other people contributing are real survivors just like you, if ...

it's a light in the world when you find your self in a dark place