This place is invaluable to me. I’m going to cancel a charity DD that mainly goes to fund design & print and send it to you instead. No better support network. Thank you for everything. Thanks

Nothing is too much.
There are always people listening.
I have not experienced any judgement.
There are parts of my story that other people share, and others that people have provided vital perspective on.
Havoca is not a place for Brightsiding and Toxic Positivity. Phew.
I feel held. Genuinely held.

Thanks stephen!

Thanks Stephen, I’ll do that. I had another thought and I’m very new, so no idea whether this would work, but has anyone thought of publishing a collection of writings? As a designer I would be happy to put some time into collating stories / poems / whatever anonymous contributions people would like...

I’ll gladly give £2 / month, how do I send it / where do i send it to / is it possible to do anonymously?

The only person I know who could give great advice is my abuser, which would be funny if it wasn’t so awful.