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by john100
Wed Aug 02, 2023 10:00 am
Forum: Notice Board
Topic: New Moderator - Welcome Northern
Replies: 12
Views: 4028

Re: New Moderator - Welcome Northern

Hey Jules. You will be fab.
by john100
Thu Apr 06, 2023 9:22 am
Forum: Notice Board
Topic: HAVOCA - Negative Feedback
Replies: 51
Views: 10236

Re: HAVOCA - Negative Feedback

I'm no saint, I am flawed, but the message in Jamie's post is not to look for people to judge, it's the opposite. It takes the stronger person not to rise to provocation, not to judge what is perceived as provocation. When we see something that irks us, we must be better than to judge it, even if i...
by john100
Sat Jan 28, 2023 7:55 pm
Forum: Notice Board
Topic: Member of the Year 2022
Replies: 34
Views: 10804

Re: Member of the Year 2022

DIVINE wrote: Sat Jan 28, 2023 5:07 pm Yes Sid must be member of the year ❤❤❤
The Sid comments are good, but there is a clear attack on another member here which I was going to report but I can't find the report button.
by john100
Thu Oct 20, 2022 7:30 pm
Forum: Announcements
Topic: The Report of the Independent Inquiry into Child Sexual Abuse
Replies: 3
Views: 3056

Re: The Report of the Independent Inquiry into Child Sexual Abuse

To all of you, all of us, who spoke to the any of the various aspects of the enquiry, well done. Whatever you feel about what they have reported without us, who spoke to them, they wouldn't be reporting anything. I thank you all for taking the time and effort, for facing our fears and for the anguis...
by john100
Sat Feb 26, 2022 8:03 pm
Forum: Notice Board
Topic: Member of the Year 2021 - Winner
Replies: 29
Views: 8736

Re: Member of the Year 2021 - Winner

Well done Bunting. Jamie is a great facilitator but it's the members who make the forum what it is. They chose you.
by john100
Sat Dec 04, 2021 8:27 pm
Forum: Announcements
Topic: Sponsorship
Replies: 27
Views: 9200

Re: Sponsorship

Have an extra 50p a month, £6 a year. Not much on it's own but if we all did that?
by john100
Tue Aug 17, 2021 2:31 pm
Forum: Announcements
Topic: Money Raising Ideas
Replies: 83
Views: 18698

Re: Money Raising Ideas

Lottery funding?
by john100
Sat Jul 10, 2021 8:22 am
Forum: Announcements
Topic: HAVOCA 20th Anniversary
Replies: 16
Views: 10829

Re: HAVOCA 20th Anniversary

It's an achievement to be proud of. The information is good but the forum is a saviour.. A place where kindness, compassion, empathy and understanding come to the fore. A place which many of us never knew existed let alone had experienced. I know that I am not alone in the tears that I shed when I f...
by john100
Wed Jun 23, 2021 2:34 pm
Forum: Research/Studies/Projects
Topic: Understanding and Promoting Positive Health and Well-being Outcomes in the UK - Study Information
Replies: 2
Views: 3254

Re: Understanding and Promoting Positive Health and Well-being Outcomes in the UK - Study Information

One question asks if you have been touched sexually by someone who was more than five years ago suggesting that if, as in my case, then it is not of interest to her study. I have emailed her and commented on that.
by john100
Wed Feb 03, 2021 10:45 pm
Forum: Notice Board
Topic: RESULTS - Member of the Year 2020
Replies: 17
Views: 11270

Re: RESULTS - Member of the Year 2020

Congratulations guys. Also congratulations and thank you to every one who has contributes to our place, from Stephen and Actnormal who have the headlines today for the things that they have done, to everyone who found it hard but still managed to contribute some thing to make this place a better pla...
by john100
Tue Dec 29, 2020 11:34 am
Forum: Announcements
Topic: HAVOCA Online Shop
Replies: 18
Views: 11438

Re: HAVOCA Online Shop

It looks good and I'm not sure that it needs any more but if it does John Bradshaw, Home Coming and particularly Healing the Shame that Binds.
by john100
Fri Dec 25, 2020 4:59 pm
Forum: Announcements
Topic: Christmas Greetings
Replies: 5
Views: 4830

Re: Christmas Greetings

Back to you Mr Trustee. How may people have you helped?
by john100
Thu Dec 24, 2020 9:00 pm
Forum: Announcements
Topic: HAVOCA Online Shop
Replies: 18
Views: 11438

Re: HAVOCA Online Shop

Works for me now

although I couldn't see my introduction to the literature "Victim No More" by Mike Lew in the Male section. :)
by john100
Thu Dec 24, 2020 7:27 pm
Forum: Announcements
Topic: HAVOCA Online Shop
Replies: 18
Views: 11438

Re: HAVOCA Online Shop

Are the blocks meant to link to anything at this stage?
by john100
Sun Oct 11, 2020 5:34 pm
Forum: Notice Board
Topic: Welcome New Moderators
Replies: 7
Views: 6848

Re: Welcome New Moderators

:blob6: :wav:

Welcome aboard.

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