I agree with that. There's more support for us here than at NAPAC

Absolutely with you there! That's exactly what I'm doing to the one who isn't sorry at all, and still a bit with the others to be fair, as they still don't get there part! They think as someone else did worse, that it lessens their abuse of me, thinking I'll forgive them easier than my brother. Thin...

Only partly agree though. Forgiveness is a two way street, if they actually truly apologise, show it mean it etc and they genuinely earn it, then if we hold onto the forgiveness, we are wrong. If they do all that first, then and only then can forgiveness be given. You cant forgive anything that does...

You don't know if you can until happens. Forgiven some of them, the genuinely sorry one's, didn't know I would or could, it just happened. Cant forgive the others, got a long way in acceptance but not all forgiveness is possible, I tried forgiving too early to try and rid myself of hate but it didn'...