Poll - Who was your abuser/s
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Re: Poll - Who was your abuser/s
The mother I listed was actually my step mother. Aditionally I considered other but stranger may capture it. She sold me to men as a child when I was about 9-13. She was a heroin addict and would drug me sometimes.
Re: Poll - Who was your abuser/s
Stepfather was not on the list so I put father because I felt it more of a significant fact than clicking 'other'. As so many of us are abused by our stepfathers I think it is pretty careless to leave it off the list!
Re: Poll - Who was your abuser/s
Oh my gosh! That's horrible!rainaswish wrote:She sold me to men as a child when I was about 9-13. She was a heroin addict and would drug me sometimes.
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Re: Poll - Who was your abuser/s
I"ve thought anout posting aboit trying to find her. I tried recently. No luck. Thank you. Part of my worst memorirs.
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Re: Poll - Who was your abuser/s
Father is most common I'm shocked but also relieved I'm not a freak who's father does this
I'm so sad for you all..
Rainaswish - I'm so sorry that happened to you <3
I'm so sad for you all..
Rainaswish - I'm so sorry that happened to you <3
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Re: Poll - Who was your abuser/s
I answered this question years ago, before I remembered the worst stuff. My answer today would be different, but I can't change my original answer or add the most significant abuser in my life.
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Re: Poll - Who was your abuser/s
My father was an asshole but I couldn't include him as an "abuser". It's more accurate to say he just sucked as a parent. My molester was the son of a family friend.
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Re: Poll - Who was your abuser/s
If you ever remake this poll I hope that perhaps you can add in Step-Father and Step-Mother into the list of answers. For me and probably for a few others a Step-parent is in no way considered family, especially an abusive one. To call them a Mother or a Father even is painful because they tarnish the name of what it truly means to be a parent.
But my answer is the same as Onde's. Was abused by my step-father and my mother was too weak to leave him which led to neglect.
But my answer is the same as Onde's. Was abused by my step-father and my mother was too weak to leave him which led to neglect.
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Re: Poll - Who was your abuser/s
Selected a few
Mother
Father
Step cousin
Four boys in primary school
Three boys in high school and also a
Teacher
My ex boyfriend
And three strangers
Mother
Father
Step cousin
Four boys in primary school
Three boys in high school and also a
Teacher
My ex boyfriend
And three strangers
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It was mommy-not-so-dearest. The rest were enablers, as well as victims, but she's the abuser, queen of all.
I'm not really a newbie. Jamie had to delete and recreate my account. I initially joined Havoca in August 2014.
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Re: Poll - Who was your abuser/s
Wow!
Nuclear family: 49%
Extended family (inc friends): 22%
Non-family: 29%
So that means a whopping 71% of us were abused by family members/friends
And 29% by non-family
Wow.
Nuclear family: 49%
Extended family (inc friends): 22%
Non-family: 29%
So that means a whopping 71% of us were abused by family members/friends
And 29% by non-family
Wow.
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Re: Poll - Who was your abuser/s
There is no box for husband.
Therapist.
Church people.
They all fit in amongst the rest of mine.
Thanks Jamie
Therapist.
Church people.
They all fit in amongst the rest of mine.
Thanks Jamie
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