Poll - Type of Abuse

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What type of abuse did you suffer from? Select all options that apply.

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Poll - Type of Abuse

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Please select the type of abuse you suffered from. If you suffered from more than one type please select all options that apply.

If you are like most people you may think abuse is physical violence - having force used against you, having bones broken, being attacked, punched or kicked. This is true of course, but other types of abuse exist which are as bad as and can be worse than physical violence. There are four types of child abuse; physical, sexual, psychological and physical and emotional neglect. Although listed as four distinct categories they all over lap. For example a child may experience physical violence and also be forced to watch his parent being physically abused, resulting in psychological damage.

All four types of abuse have things in common; they are detrimental to the well being of the child involved and can have serious consequences in the child's development with far reaching problems right into adulthood. All four types can be stopped, either the perpetrator or the victim has the ability to stop the abuse and get help (we will discuss this later). Thirdly, all forms of abuse are illegal - some groups still maintain that sex with children should be encouraged. Children do not have the intellectual, emotional or physical maturity to be able to protect themselves from adults and therefore are protected by the law. Adults will always have more power over children and therefore should be prevented from exploiting their power.

Physical Abuse: Slapping a child's bottom is probably not abuse, stubbing a cigarette out on a child's bottom is. The wooly area between these types of punishment are distinguished by guidelines set out by the law. Physical child abuse is defined as any corporal punishment that either leaves marks or is potentially dangerous to the child. Unfortunately, the law does not define emotional abuse as a result of this physical violence. One of our readers, Mark, was continually slapped across his face by his Father. The slapping which was continuous and for no good reason would sometimes last all evening. Although he suffered no permanent physical damage as a result of the abuse his emotional scars go deep. Mark now married with two children becomes aggressive and angry, and although not violent does use his power to intimidate and frighten his children.

Sexual Abuse: Is in fact a sexual act. That act cannot be ignored. Yet it is much more than a sexual act, if adults who were sexual with children merely wanted to quench their thirst for sex there are many lower risk methods of acquiring satisfaction. In most cases it is not the touch itself that is harmful it is the meaning behind the touch that hurts. Sexual abuse can be an expression of power, compulsiveness, an act of vengeance, or a desire for control, which often dangerously comes masked as an act of love.

Psychological Abuse: Is hard to define it includes, name calling, humiliation, rejection, putdowns, being degraded, being belittled, being made to feel ashamed of oneself, isolation, being corrupt, threatening behaviour, witnessing marital violence, forced to perform acts beyond the child's control.

Physical and Emotional Neglect: This is what didn't happen to you as a child as opposed to what did happen to you. Physical neglect is not receiving the proper level of care for a child, for example no shoes, lack of proper clothing, lack of food, lack of shelter and lack of medical care. Emotional neglect involves not getting loved, not receiving sympathy, affection or empathy. All of which are essential for the child's upbringing.
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Re: New Poll - Type of Abuse

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How can you be sexually abused and not emotionally abused or even Psychologically

I am not being pedantic - sorry if it comes across that way. I am just wondering.

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Re: New Poll - Type of Abuse

Post by Jamie »

I think you are right Sigma, answer the poll in the way you think is right - you can select more than one type of abuse.

The original description quotes:

'Although listed as four distinct categories they all over lap. For example a child may experience physical violence and also be forced to watch his parent being physically abused, resulting in psychological damage.

All four types of abuse have things in common; they are detrimental to the well being of the child involved and can have serious consequences in the child's development with far reaching problems right into adulthood.'
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