Blog Update - Lay by You

This is where staff will post news about events that are taking place.
Post Reply
User avatar
Jamie
Trustee
Trustee
Posts: 9136
Joined: Sun Jul 03, 2005 7:12 pm
Location: North Wales, UK
Has thanked: 256 times
Been thanked: 1387 times
Contact:

Blog Update - Lay by You

Post by Jamie »

A song written by the foster parent of a victim.

https://www.havoca.org/lay-by-you/
User avatar
Embers
HAVOCA Sponsor
HAVOCA Sponsor
Posts: 7018
Joined: Sat May 14, 2022 5:40 pm
Location: UK
Has thanked: 163 times
Been thanked: 123 times

Re: Blog Update - Lay by You

Post by Embers »

I'll try again another day - its made me ball my eyes out 😭
'Doing the work to heal, to manage CPTSD and to be a stronger me. '
They smothered my fire but the embers still burn.
🌈
User avatar
FiveInOne
HAVOCA Sponsor
HAVOCA Sponsor
Posts: 745
Joined: Tue Nov 08, 2022 8:46 am
Has thanked: 18 times
Been thanked: 27 times

Re: Blog Update - Lay by You

Post by FiveInOne »

Jamie wrote: Sat Apr 15, 2023 7:15 pm A song written by the foster parent of a victim.

https://www.havoca.org/lay-by-you/
Powerful. I wonder at what point a child who has been abused and had it normalised who then goes on to act out what is normal for them becomes/is classed as a "child abuser" and "accountable" for what they are doing.

I wrote my own poem about that though I was below the age of 5 when doing that to my brother:

viewtopic.php?p=441391&hilit=child+child+abuser#p441391
It's people who want to have sex that are making it happen. It's the people who tell you to "shut up" that are making it happen. It's NOT you. It's NOT your fault. :love4:
Post Reply

Return to “Announcements”