Poll - How Old Were You When you Knew

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Poll - How Old Were You When you Knew

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A sub-topic of this thread

How old were you when you realised what was happening to you was abuse?
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Is it possible to have a “don’t know” option please?
I'm not religious, and would appreciate this being respected in any replies to my threads.

I was not abused by a family member.


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Jamie the link above forces a login over non-secure http.
I think it just needs the “s” to be appended to the end of the schema.

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Sorted for both of you. Thanks guys.
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Feels like there should be a higher age option!!
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I know what you mean; I only knew about the CSA in my 40’s!
But I suppose the poll reflects the rate of development we experience in childhood and adolescence, the way those years feel like they go so slowly, and the significance we attach to each childhood year passing.
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For me its hard too tell, as a child i didnt only go through the abuse but also had witnessed others being raped&abused too,

as a kid i knew my family had been destroyed with no father in sight i was a battered confused little kid at the same time forced to deal with the science of a so called diet mixed with unnatural ingredients, taking out of school pricked and proded at
then come a time where i would medicate myself with truth and it hurts to know how poisious the frequences are out there.
But who cares, right?
i hate posting stuff like this, why? itsn't important to release..
Can you save my heavy damaged soul?
i spoke out and the abuse&(psychologically) continued
forced too deal with what i feel.
still i Keep Moving Forward. You must too.
I refuse to take any part of the abuses and manipulation of the living.
Psychological, Biological and Spiritual.
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