Hi CdL,Coeur de Lion wrote: ↑Sat Apr 01, 2023 4:26 pm
It takes the stronger person not to rise to provocation, not to judge what is perceived as provocation. When we see something that irks us, we must be better than to judge it, even if it seems to beg judgement.
"What could that person have experienced that would lead them to think in that way? What could they have suffered that would cause them to lash out when their assumptions are challenged? - their predictable assumptions, the ones that make them feel safe?"
Very nicely put!
And thank you for contributing and doing so much for Havoca.
I appreciate that you set a good example of what you expressed so well above.
When people lash out because they disagree, it can take inner strength to not react to their provocation.
I like your ideas for thinking about and framing why that person might be reacting as they are.
H