Zero Tolerance Policy at HAVOCA

[Jamie]

There is a lot of unrest on the forums at the moment. Heated debated, arguments, accusations.

None of it is achieving anything other than preventing members receive the support they need.

This message is a warning that there will be a zero tolerance policy in force from this moment forward until further notice.

Any infractions, no matter how small, will be dealt with quickly and robustly.

We are all adults. We are all survivors. We all need to take responsibility for our own actions.

If you don't like it here on these forums, please leave. Don't stay and ruin it for the members that do find these forums part of their survivor's arsenal.

[charlies angel]

Thank you Jamie,

I feel uncomfortable about the current climate and feel twice shy either posting my own things or responding where I may otherwise have done for fear of it becoming inflamed. I would imagine that I don't speak for myself there too.

I have never felt like that in the 12 years I have been here. Who else is staying quiet on a site for healing after abuse out of fear? That's not ok at all. Not the ethos of the site.

Everyone has always worked so hard to keep Havoca the wonderful place it is and the healing that it brings. The level of healing it has brought for me over the years is priceless and needs to be kept for other survivors.

Please let's return to the place of harmony of Havoca. This place is a safe havan for Healing. Lets keep it that way.

I am very pleased you have posted this Jamie - thank you.

CA x

[Jet]

Thank you for posting this Jamie
I really hope the anger and the name calling can stop now

[RayAnne Kennan]

Zero tolerance for what?

[Coeur de Lion]

Please see the published rules. Those are what we enforce.
app.php/rules

[DIVINE]

Thank you Jamie, this post was necessary to bring back peace, calm and harmony, to our safe space.

[DIVINE]

Zero tolerance for what?

I rage against my abusers, not at my HAVOCA family, your reply above is aggressive and disrespectful.

Its been playing on my mind all day, I come in peace...I expect that of you too!

[DIVINE]

Having said that....((((RayeAnne))), I still want to embrace you, support you...

[Scars]

i was totally unaware that people felt harassed here.
i have not experienced it myself, so it was a shock to me.

so glad HAVOC is listening and taking a stand to make this a SAFE ZONE for everyone.

if i have ever seemed , unaccepting, aggressive or disrespectful to anyone, it was not my intention.
please, forgive me, and tell me so i can correct it.

scars

[DIVINE]

((((Scars)))...we a diverse family...but the verbal Agression has passed

[Jet]

i was totally unaware that people felt harassed here.
i have not experienced it myself, so it was a shock to me.

so glad HAVOC is listening and taking a stand to make this a SAFE ZONE for everyone.

if i have ever seemed , unaccepting, aggressive or disrespectful to anyone, it was not my intention.
please, forgive me, and tell me so i can correct it.

scars

You haven't done anything wrong Scars <3 <3